Wedding rings are the main attributes of family life, symbols of unity of two loving hearts. There are many beliefs about these talismans that can both save and make happy, and destroy the marriage.
What should be the wedding rings?
Acceptable jewelry inlaid with stone. Information on what kind of energy it carries and whether it suits the marriages according to the horoscope will help determine the choice.
Wedding accessories should be worn and removed freely, but not cramped or slid off your finger . If the rings are small, the bride and groom will not be able to wear them, and if large, drop or lose them. To avoid this, a purchase is made in advance, always with a fitting.
Signs about the appearance of the rings
They should be smooth . The corrugated surface promises serious obstacles to the spouses, which they will have to overcome. More irregularities - more difficulties. Marriage, especially if the spouses are young and inexperienced, can fail.
The girl’s ring can be thinner and more elegant than that of the chosen one . This will create images of a strong head and protector of the family and its gentle and fragile homemaker.
Signs about wearing wedding rings
Orthodox Christians married in a church are worn on the right hand, on the fourth finger . The ancient Greeks believed that the vessels from there lead directly to the heart, along with them, along with the blood, the energy of love circulates. It is not recommended to wear a ring made of silver on the ring finger - this metal cools the mutual feelings of the spouses. It is allowed to wear wedding jewelry on the middle finger - this will help a woman to find inner harmony and restore energy balance.
Family Catholics and Muslims, unlike the Orthodox, wear a ring on their left hand, and divorced ones on their right.
It is considered a good sign to find gold jewelry before the wedding . But wearing it is forbidden - it is not known what kind of energy his previous owner possessed. In Western Europe, it was believed that finding a ring by a young unmarried girl was the machinations of evil spirits, and putting it on a finger automatically becomes the bride of the devil.
Signs on the purchase, receipt and transfer of rings
Newlyweds can choose rings together, taking into account the general opinion and individual preferences. The groom pays for the purchase, demonstrating a willingness to become a support and breadwinner for the future family. To make the right choice, go to the store charged with a positive mood .
It is better to pack wedding rings in one box and store together until the wedding day. Demonstrating to outsiders is undesirable. You can freeze them in water for a while to strengthen the future alliance.
During the celebration, all other decorations are removed from the fingers. Drop the engagement ring - to separation . If it falls, pass a solid white thread through it so that it takes away all the negative.
Gloves from the hands of the bride must be removed before the spouses exchange symbols of love and fidelity. Wearing over the gloves is not recommended categorically - the union will be short-lived and fragile.
As soon as the wedding attributes are on the bride and groom, a single friend, unmarried girlfriend or relative who plans to create their own family in the near future takes the box from them.
About the rings after the wedding ...
There are times when it is necessary to remove a piece of jewelry . According to great-grandmothers, there should not be any rings or chains on the woman in childbirth in order to facilitate the birth of the child. If the child in the house is seriously ill, the mother can put her little ring under his pillow at night to “share” her energy and contribute to a speedy recovery. Return the ring on the finger to the loving spouse.
In no case do not allow anyone to pull him off his hands, measure and lend. You can shorten the age, “give” your fate, health, material wealth and conjugal happiness into the wrong hands.
No matter how difficult the financial situation is, one cannot lay, re-melt or sell wedding accessories. Peace, peace and love will leave the family.
The absence of one of the main charms of the family significantly undermines its well-being. The loss of a betrothal is an unkind sign promising treason, divorce, or a major loss. If this happens, it is better to purchase a new pair of rings, and donate the rest from the previous pair to charity.
If the ring is cracked:
- on a finger - it means that it absorbed a negative directed at its owner;
- removed from the finger - averted misfortune from home;
- according to other beliefs - to the unfaithfulness of the spouse.
After a divorce, it’s better to get rid of the old wedding ring . It will bear the negative and energy of destruction, preventing it from finding peace and happiness, and establishing a new personal life for its owner.
Widows are allowed to wear a ring on their left hand in memory of their former husband, and better on a chain, around their neck. Pass it on to your children, as well as the decoration of the deceased spouse, it is not necessary that they do not repeat the fate of their parents.
Taking into account all the signs associated with wedding rings, do not forget that a lot depends on the newlyweds themselves. For a marriage to be long and strong, mutual respect, attention, patience and, of course, love are necessary.
