Do you have teens in your family? Then you know how difficult it is to pick up their clothes. And it’s not only a matter of choosing quality and beautiful things. Young people pay special attention to what to wear. And rarely is naughty. Particular demands on things are explained by the fact that it can cause a different attitude of the environment of your child. And this is not always approval. Recently, some items of teenage wardrobe cause aggression in the youth environment. Why? We explain!
For some "gear" you have to "explain"
The massive spread of youth fights over t-shirts or sneakers swept the country.
Important! For several years now, among teenagers there has been a requirement to "explain for gear." Teenagers are forced to “answer” not only for musical hobbies and territorial affiliation, but also for appearance.
What does it mean
“Explain the gear” means to explain what right a teenager has to wear those things that are worn on him.
If he cannot do this, they will beat him, and things can take him away. Moreover, even in different areas of the same locality, different things can cause aggression.
How does the "explanation"
Local gopniks (“offspring”) from the number of near-football fans, besides the usual question: “What district are you from?”, May be asked to clarify some of the nuances regarding the wardrobe. In fact - to carry out a robbery for courage or to appropriate other people's property.
Specialize in this "casual". This is the name of fashionistas who make sure that branded items of clothing are not fakes . But the “top (hype) gear” (clothes that you can’t buy everywhere) is quite expensive and not everyone can afford it. For example, jeans cost about 40 thousand rubles.
Not only boys but also girls are attacked . Aggressive teenagers can knock down their victim, beat, insult, and even shoot it on video.
Important! Social networks create specialized groups dedicated to this topic. The videos appear on their pages.
Which brands have become “dangerous"
Parents need to know what new thing may not please their son or daughter.
Most often, they are called to account for a few details of the youth wardrobe.
- Militarized parkas and jackets of the NAPAPIJRI trademark .
- Windbreakers and T-shirts Stone Island .
- Thrasher T-Shirts & Caps.
- Clothing from Gosha Rubchinsky .
- T-shirts of the brand " Sputnik 1985 ".
- Any camouflage stuff.
Not only brands cause for aggression
Provoking a conflict, aggressive individuals can find fault not only with the brand. They can cling to how exactly this or that clothing is worn . For example, are jeans tucked up, is a baseball cap worn over a bandana, how exactly is it worn, the visor to one side, or in another way.
Forwards often also find out if branded items are forged . And making sure that it is branded, they can ask about the history of the creation of the brand or about the meaning of the symbols depicted on things .
Adolescents themselves react to the danger of "explaining" in different ways.
Some ask their mothers and fathers not to buy clothes of “forbidden” brands . Others put on specially those things for which they can “ask” . And intentionally appear in those places where conflicts and clashes are not uncommon.
However, such daredevils are not in a hurry to visit “voluntary victims”. They are skilled in hand-to-hand combat or other martial arts. Therefore, they are looking for a reason to apply their skill in life.
How to "explain" to do without a fight
How to intelligibly and competently learn to "explain for the gear"? Teenagers talk about several answers.
They can be quite simple. So, when asked where and for what purpose things were purchased, we can honestly say that their parents bought them . And this is absolutely nothing shameful! Even such a paradoxical answer is accepted: "Santa Claus brought." Who can argue with the authority of a fabulous grandfather ?!
Important! Giving similar answers, adolescents, as it were, “shift” the responsibility for acquiring the “wrong” thing to adults. Surprisingly, this version is accepted!
Do you have a teenager? Do not make surprises when purchasing clothes without first discussing all the details of the product.